Sometime I spend ample amount of time with my clients to tackle their problem relating to their lives. Sometimes the problem is related to relationship or business problem but at times it is related to some really big mess. Recently most of my regular clients have noticed that one of the things poking up their clean up list is to reply to emails and phone calls from friends and family. And the same is happening in my own life too. I love my friends and relatives but I am not in regular touch with them all. Though I am bit pre occupied with my work but of late I have realized that I am keeping myself bit isolated. However I think the same can happen to anybody that though we interact with multiple people throughout the day but we still don’t have time for our closed one. Therefore it is very important for all of us to have a strong circle of support that can help us grow, and be a part of our community, and help us know about what we are. I have found out some ways to develop and intensify the supportive circle.
Don’t Wait
In case you are missing your closed relative or friend than call, email or drop a note to let the person that you are thinking of him. It will take just a few minutes to either email or cal but it will toughen that bond. Don’t just put it off for a while thinking that you will contact latter because that will never happen. This is the most influential way to strengthen the existing relations and make your friend receive your moment of love.
Develop Your Web
Every one of us prioritizes our circle of friends, acquaintance, relatives etc. Those closes to us know us well. Each one of our social circle support us, but have differing level of attachment to us. We don’t have the same repo with everyone in our lives, and we prioritize accordingly.
Join a Circle
The most excellent way to build a circle is to join a already exists group. When you join an already existed group having the same share of interest or viewpoint, you will automatically develop a new relationship. When you join a work out circle, booklover club or a religious club than you has to devote time to cultivate that relation.
Have a friend circle –
Go and mingle with people, make new friends. Call your friends for coffee. Enjoy long weekend in company of your friends. Nurture those relationships.
Call, email your friends.
Your circle of friends will support you and will keep you going in so many ways. be inclined it, and it will be inclined to you.
Its so easy to get so focused one part of our lives that we end up neglecting the whole. Like eating relationships are a necessity and without dependable and nurturing relationships we get burned out and lose our drive.
ReplyDeleteI'm so guilty of this and its funny that it takes a marketing expert to remind me to take care of my "circle of friends" ; )
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David